Fight

Fighting is Natural. Talking through your feelings and admitting something is goes against your biological instincts. Self preservation tells us to avoid conflict to defend yourself its animal instinct. What tells you most about people is how they try to resolve a conflict. We were brought up to fear emotion, emotion equals weakness, and weakness is unaccept acceptable in modern society. At the core all fights are the same, two people yelling at each other, going in circles doing anything to avoid how they feel. When admission is salvation why is it so hard to achieve. It seems so easy to solve a fight when you think about it, say how you feel. In practice its much more difficult, isn't it? Until people can accept that emotion is natural and learn not to fear speaking their mind we will continue to streach out long emotionally hurtful fights. That's why I want to grow close enough to someone that, that fear doesn't exist between me and them.